Well, we sat in court today until just before 1:00pm. We heard a lot of heartbreaking cases, none of which had to do with the children in our home. At just before 1:00pm, the judge continued the case until February 9th.
It was continued because the birth dad listed on the DSS paperwork has been located and the judge ordered paternity testing.
We did see both birth mom and (potential) birth dad in court today. It was nerve wracking, sitting there in court, wanting to stare at Baby Girl's birth mom, but also not wanting to make her uncomfortable, or elicit a dirty look. I doubt that she knew that we were Baby Girl's foster parents because we didn't speak and since the case never technically came before the court, we never stepped forward.
Knowing that it will be Baby Girl's 4 month birthday before her case is even brought before the judge is discouraging. Knowing that it is all in God's hands is peaceful.
I did give the letter and photo to the social worker so that she could pass it along to Baby Girl's birth mother. Please pray with me that she receives it for what it is, and that her heart is softened so that she might be receptive to the love that the Lord already has for her.
Thanks for the prayers, comments, text messages and support that you have shown me and Luke. We cherish every one and know that it is not by our own strength that we made it through today.
I am still with you all in prayer. I am glad that it was somewhat peaceful. God is GREAT LIKE THAT!
ReplyDeletestill praying. it is so cool to me how god uses us in these crazy ways. :0)
ReplyDeletei wish that you would have gotten some resolution today. i can't imagine sitting there and not really getting any answers. that baby is lucky to have you!
ReplyDeletestacy
We will continue to pray.
ReplyDeleteI commend you for the AMAZING letter you wrote (i read it this weekend) and for the love you poured out in your words.
ReplyDeletePraying that birth mom will indeed receive the letter for what it is and TOTALLY feel the love and mercy from our Lord.
Hang in there as you continue to bear this cup.