Thursday, July 24, 2008

Baby D Update

I thought I should probably update you all on the situation with Baby D. Yesterday, I went for an Agency Review. Basically this is where different people from DSS departments meet and review the case. In the meeting was Baby D's social worker (the same social worker his birth parents contact), the assistant to the attorney for the Guardian Ad Litem, some lady from the health department and another lady that I'm not sure what she does. Also present was, me! The birth parents were not there. Baby D's social worker said that birth dad had intentions on coming, and she continued to check to see if he was there.

Anyway, the meeting lasting about 15 minutes. They reviewed why Baby D was removed from the home, what the birth parents have completed from the case plan, what happened in court (minimal). They asked me how he was doing and if I had any questions. My heart wanted to scream, "Yes! I have a freakin' question. When are you guys gonna wake up and realize the he's better off with us?" Instead, I nodded politely and said no. Anyone who knows me personally can tell you that I am not a quiet person by nature. However, for the span of that 15 minutes I was relatively silent.

I was nervous about attending the review, not because it was a review but because I knew there was a chance I'd have to deal with the birth parents. Anytime I see them, it stirs up so much emotion. As I was walking into the governmental buildings, I look up and boldly displayed is

"IN GOD WE TRUST."

In a day where so many governmental buildings are having to take down their proclamations to God, this one was there. On that day, stemming from weeks of struggles, He was there. Jeremiah 29:11 raced through my mind once again. I took a deep breath, picked up all of my emotions and continued into the building, Trusting In God.

For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to
prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
~Jeremiah 29:11, NIV

Photo update:


Baby D's bathtime is a family event

He's growing so much. I bet he weighs
almost 10 lbs!!

10 comments:

  1. Baby D is adorable - What a beautiful baby! Your other kiddos are goregeous as well.

    I hope you have a great weekend.

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  2. Jessica...He is PRECIOUS! I love giving baby baths and seeing baby bath time...its so sweet--except for the occasional spray or poop :-)

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  3. I love bathtime too...I think it is one of Levi's favorites...along with sucking on mama's face! He's growing so fast!

    Quick random question...I created a header for my blog on scrapblog...now, where do I paste the code?

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  4. I love him and I love you.

    I'm sorry I blew you off today.. I'm a bad friend. I want to hang out with you soon, and I would't mind some cuddle time with Baby D.

    :)

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  5. Okay, so for whatever reasons I have been drawn to your blog for a while now. And here today I see you in this Phi Mu shirt!! That is it! Where and when? I was a sister at Elon. You? Too cool!!

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  6. Beth, you can export under "File" in the top left corner. You'll have to publish it first.

    brightwells, I was a Phi Mu at Lyon College in Batesville, Arkansas. For the past two years I was the adviser for the chapter at UNCG. W/ the fostering and such, I've had to step down. Small world, huh?

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  7. Yea! Thanks Jessica! I'm not crazy about the background from my previous template, but I'll work on it...thanks again!

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  8. I love these pictures! I can't wait to see what amazing things God does with your family when it comes to Baby D's life!

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  9. Oh Jessica, He is so C U T E!!

    I cling to Jeremiah 29:11. We will see you Saturday.

    Blessings-Mandy

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