Thursday, March 10, 2011

A Marvelous, Ordinary Miracle

I believe that God still performs miracles, just like He has done since the first day of Creation. Unfortunately, we often mask His miracles by calling them coincidences or give all the credit to medicine or even the inexplicable.

But you all already know that I don't believe in coincidences.

So I guess it's no coincidence that I was blessed beyond my understanding to be able to photograph some of the sweetest, most humble people I know. In fact in photographing them, I got to record for them a miracle. A God breathed, completely surprising, off the charts MIRACLE.

Let me explain a little more. Almost a year ago, my sweet friend Lindy and I were preparing for the birth of Ella Joy. At the time we didn't know it was Ella but you know what I mean. And when I say "Lindy and I" I mean that Lindy and Chris were home from Kenya (were they serve as missionaries) and I had invited Lindy to be in the delivery room with us when the "baby" was born. Why?

Well, for only reasons known to God, everyone (including Lindy herself) thought that Lindy would never get to experience the miracle of birth first hand. We all thought, Lindy included, that witnessing the birth of our 6th child might be the closest she'd get to a delivery of someone that she loves. I was beyond honored to have her share this experience with us. Truthfully, honored doesn't begin to describe how I felt having her in that delivery room. I don't know that I've ever told Lindy this, but I think I will always cherish Ella's birth in an extra special way just because I got to share it with her.

(Lindy, Ella (just hours old) and a very swollen Me)

You see, from the time we became friends Lindy and I have shared a special bond. It's something beyond what I can explain, especially here on a blog, but once I began to know Lindy I was drawn to her with a deepness that my heart could not understand. I loved her so deeply and I knew from early on that our physical time together would be limited. Chris and Lindy left for Kenya just days after Aaron was placed in our home. Before that, our friendship had only boasted a mere year or two in length.

For reasons that we can only attribute to the Lord, we both believe that God has knit our hearts together in a special way. How else can you explain a friendship that deepens with each passing day yet is separated by 8,000+ miles?

So the last time Chris and Lindy were in the US, I had the privilege of sharing with her one of the most life changing events a woman can experience. Childbirth.

For all either of us knew, Lindy would not experience such a thing again. And with their impending adoption from Rwanda on the horizon, it was uncertain when they'd grace American soil again. Afterall, it was expected that by today's date, they'd be months away from meeting their newly adopted child(ren) and they'd be settling in to life at home in Kenya with one or two precious babies.

However, in the fall of last year Chris and Lindy shared with us devastating news. Their adoption from Rwanda had fallen through. This was the second time that they were on pace to adopt children and the second time that it had crumbled in their hands. These two blows to their already tender hearts was tough. Friends and family here in the US wept and prayed for them, knowing that their hearts were breaking and their arms were longing to meet their children.

It was hard to see God working as we processed why these two people, who will no doubt bring honor and glory to the name of the Father as they raise their own children, were not able to bring their babies home.

Several months back, I was skyping with Lindy and she kept complaining of a stomach virus. I thought little about it because, honestly, she lives in Africa. But the stomach virus continued and, as it turns out it wasn't a virus at all. I wondered if she had a parasite, since she'd gotten one early on in their time in Kenya. Turns out, she did!


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A beautiful, glorious, energy-sucking, strong heartbeat having, God knit parasite growing right in her womb!!


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God is a god of MIRACLES. He loves nothing more that to bless His children with the unthinkable joys that only His heart can create.


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A year is a long time, no doubt. But I can hardly believe that a year ago this month my own abdomen was so swollen with child I could hardly move. A year ago today we all believed that Lindy and Chris were months away from returning to Kenya and proceeding with a Rwandan adoption. We all believed that God had chosen another path for them that didn't include pregnancy.


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Today we believe that God is a god of miracles. He's not a god who performed miracles 2,000+ years ago and then quit. He's not a god who has changed and stopped doing the things He's said He'd do.

Nope.

He's a God if overwhelming, completely unexpected, totally mind-blowing MIRACLES! He was then and He is today, and in June He'll be a miracle delivering God all over again!


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I am so excited to see what God has in store for this sweet baby growing in Lindy's womb. I have no doubt that he will be told of Christ soon and often. He will be raised to be a warrior who boldly proclaims the name of the King and who has parents who fear, love and serve the Lord with their whole hearts.


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Please join me in praying for Lindy, Chris and Baby T as they spend a month here with family and friends, then return to Kenya to prepare for the birth.


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Thank you Lord for this amazing miracle that we all are getting to witness. Praise you Father for working while we all have such little faith! Thank you God for this marvelous, ordinary miracle.


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(Click here to see the Lindy's whole set of maternity photos.)

16 comments:

  1. Hi there! I read your blog and have never commented but today I couldn't resist. Thank you for sharing this story. It is a great reminder to those of us struggling with infertility that God is still in the miracle business.

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  2. @Melissa,

    Take heart sweet friend. This is just a GLIMPSE of their story. Just a glimpse. Maybe Lindy will comment and give you a few more details?!? (Hint, hint, Lindy!)

    I am praying for you right now Melissa, that God will give you the desires of your heart and that you will rest and find total peace in Him!

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  3. awesome pictures!!! She is just too stinkin cute. And love, love, love the Africa ones. don't know why??

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  4. This brings tears of joy to my eyes every time! I have prayed for several years (before they ever left for Africa) for God to bless them with children. I love looking back and seeing how God has brought them to this point and seeing His miracle unfold. Thanks for sharing the photos. They are amazing!

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  5. This post had my crying tears of joy.

    He is so, so, so GOOD!

    Cxx

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  6. LOVE it!

    I just wrote a post this week about each of the precious MIRACLE babies that the LORD has BLESSED our family with. (If any of you mamas need to hear some more miracle baby stories, I hope you'll pop on over to my blog.)

    Praising Jesus for this miracle for Lindy!


    LOVE the pics, too.


    Laurel :)

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  7. Thank you for sharing this wonderful story! What a great miracle, praise the Lord!

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  8. Melissa- indeed, my friend, take heart!! The Lord opened my womb just 2 weeks after we found out about our 2nd failed adoption. His timing is indeed perfect. He owes us no explanation. I just kept telling myself that.
    Just think, if Zachariah and Elizabeth had been pregnant when THEY wanted to be, then John the Baptist wouldn't have been there to tell of the Messiah's coming!
    Rest in Him and Trust Him. The song "Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus" seemed to come on my ipod /radio at just the right times to remind me to do just that. Simply trust Him.

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  9. The pictures are great! Congratulations Lindy!

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  10. so i can't stop going through the slide show. and i can't stop making friends and family sit down to go through the slide show. and i love every idea. the paint--hello--love it. i wonder what perry would think if i printed a couple and framed them for the ole apartment:)
    who says our God doesn't do miracles anymore?
    ps-jessica, do you have a website? portfolio if you will? we have some friends who are getting married and need a photographer.

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  11. Melissa, I am Lindy's mom. Just wanted to pass along a little piece of advice that I shared with Lindy in our 6+ years of waiting for her pregnancy. It is "don't rush the wait". There is a reason for it, we don't have to understand it and there is a purpose in it. I am thankful that her infertility many times just made me sit at Jesus feet and say, I don't understand it Lord, but I want you to know, not matter what, I trust you. So many pieces fell into place to explain our wait. Stay strong!!
    Pat

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  12. Thank you for the encouragement, and thank you again for sharing this story. He truly is an awesome God!

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  13. you've gone and made me get all teary and cry now! but for a good reason. i'm overwhelmed by the love of our savior. ahhh. i can't even put in to words the feelings in my heart on this post. :)

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  14. GUYS! My eyes were popping out of my head at these gorgeous pictures! jessica, you did an incredible job capturing these three gorgeous people. Lindy, you are one of the most beautiful pregnant women I have ever seen! I can't wait to smooch on your amazing gift from Jesus. WOw, wow, wow!

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